Saturday, April 28, 2012

Interview Series: Ms Louis



Thank you, guys, for the encouragement you have shown me with this blog. Many of you have asked me to update more frequently and I promise to honor your requests! Meanwhile, earlier this month my mom, Mrs K. Sanga along with Ms J. Louis and Ms Kaur retired from school after almost four decades of working there as teachers. At a personal level, it was a very emotional change in my life (and ofcourse, my family) as the Westcott campus was much more than school for me, it was a place I called home. I once read a book which read "What is the one spot in the planet to which your ankles are shackled and where you have to return, no matter how far and wide you wander?"  Westcott is my such spot.  However, I carry with me the most beautiful memories, which will stay with me for the rest of my life and which I hope to share with you as well. 

This post, however, is about my dearest Ms J Louis who was my (and probably yours too) very first teacher. I thought nothing more befitting to start this series of interviews with her, as she starts with her retirement life. When I think of Ms Louis , I always picture the knee length dress, wide rimmed spectacles and a tiny pony tail tied neatly at the back of her neck. I am eternally grateful to her for teaching me my alphabets and my numbers and helping me read my first book of "Kitty and Rover". Who remembers that book still?

So without much ado, here's the interview:


Tell me a little about your family and where you come from.
I come from a very large family. Although my father had only one brother, we were a lot of siblings and all of us along with my cousin sisters and brothers lived in a very big house in Goa. Then each one had to go to different places. I studied with the nuns, horrible they were(makes a cringed face and laughs). No, some of them were very nice and I am still friends with some of them. My Sister Jones is in Jodhpur now and my very, very close friend Sister Michelle is in Kota now. These are the memories of my Sisters. This is my life. And now it’s come to autumn years.

How did you come about teaching in Westcott?
As soon as I finished my teacher’s training, I had an offer letter for teaching from Jesus & Mary, Mussoorie but I didn’t go. My principal, Miss Surrey, was a friend of Miss Cooper who was in Westcott at that time. There was also my friend called Sister Ilona who was working here in Westcott and Miss Surrey asked me –“Why don’t you go to Ranchi,? Bishop Westcott is also a good school” and I applied.  Miss Harinarain who was the principal then, sent me three telegrams asking me to join. You know, in those days, there were no telephones and all. And so I got my appointment letter stating that my salary would be three hundred and forty rupees per month. I was to get a partly furnished room and would have to pay eighty rupees per month for the food. And so I agreed and came here.

How did you feel when you came here for the first time?
Oh, for the first few months I didn’t feel so nice. But then I saw the atmosphere here, it was a loving atmosphere, the teachers were nice and Ms Harinarain was very helpful. It was the year 1974, and I was only 27 years old.

What was the school like then?
The school?! Oh back then, only this first block was there. When I came here, I came in a tempo and got down in front of the principal’s office. Ms Harinarain welcomed me and took me up to my room. When I was unpacking my things, she was sitting was me and she could not get over my BIG trunk and BIG suitcase filled with my many clothes! (chuckles) Then, I had my first cup of tea here sitting in this very same room. I do remember that.
And you know, my first friend here was Mrs Monica Harinarain. Of course, she was Monica Miles then. And then I started teaching my little children until now (smiles softly).

So since you’ve been in Westcott, have you only taught kindergarten children?
Yes! I have been teaching KG children since the beginning. I have done no other classes but KG. You know, when I was in St Mary’s in my teachers training, I got first class distinction in teaching, and I have wanted to teach no other class than KG.

I think, it’s most difficult to teach young children.
Yes, it is difficult. It depends on you, how you handle them. You have to love children. If you love them, then it’s not difficult.

You told me once you love teaching little boys more than girls.
I LOVE little boys (laughs). We had boys in Westcott earlier. You know, you could scold them and they would never bear a grudge. But the girls, they keep in their hearts for one or two days and then they forget.  Not boys. Boys never hold grudges.
 And you want to know something about boys? In my class there was Randeep, Muhammad Ali, Rana and Sunil Tirkey and a boy named Satish Jha !.And another one called Anil who was from Allahabad or Lucknow. Oh, they were my pets. I loved teaching boys. They used to have boys in our school and then they made it only for girls.

Who was your most memorable student ?
Okay(smiles). His name was Raja Karen and he was an army brat! His father was a major or something in the army. One was Siddharth Chibb. I remember. They both had their own ways. Little naughty boys, especially Raja Karen. And there were two Singh boys from Calcutta. Little fat fellows. They were twins and I could never tell them apart. What was their names ??Rishi Raj!! Yes, and one of then had a spot behind his ear and whenever either one created a mischief , they would both stand up and I couldn’t figure out which one was who. Then I figured it out to find the spot to identify them.

Among the girls, okay, Meghna Raj! She is right now in class 12th and she must have gone home. I was waiting for her to call but she hasn’t called me yet. She is my ‘dil ka tukda’. I love her. I am going to call her before I leave.
And there was another girl. Udita Sanga. When she concentrated during maths, she would tap her head with her fingers. Do you still do that? Write it down, you have to write it! And Shamita, never troubled me. Beautiful child.
And you want to know about more girls? Kavita Tirkey! Write all their names down. There was another girl, my memory isn’t as it used to be, she had the prettiest smile. And she would give me a small gift every Teacher’s Day and I would wait for her little gift every year.  

Tell me your funniest moment in class.
Funniest moment you want to know?(chuckles) Once a child just pulled down my skirt in class!! She wanted to go to the toilet or something and she just came and pulled my skirt down!
 I said “ What are you doing?” and she just said –“ Ma'am, toilet!” 
And she pulled my skirt and I kept laughing and laughing. I am trying to recall her name but I can’t remember!!
Jyoti!! Jyoti Kumari, it was.
Now the present lot of children, Oh! They are not like they used to be. It’s a pity.
I loved kids who argued with me. Like Vedayana Dubey, the girl in the last lot of mine.

What did she argue to you about?
Oh, everything! I must say, according to her level. She will become someone great someday. Vedayana.

How do you think the school has changed over the years?
Discipline… earlier, you’d never find children loitering about in the verandahs. Except during the breaks. And as soon as the bells would ring, the children would be inside the classrooms but now even if the bell rings ten times, the children are always roaming around.

What will you miss the most about Westcott?
It’s hard to say…. Children. I don’t know how I will live without them. Little children, my KG children.
Even the bigger children. Though I didn’t have a lot to do with them, they were a part of my life. I watched them grow.

If all the children you taught were listening to you, what would you tell them.
I will tell them that I love you. I still love you and I am sorry if at any time, I was rude or I hurt you.

Many students ask me about you. If a student wanted to contact you in your home in Goa, could they do that?
Yes ofcourse! I don’t know how to use the computers. I will learn now. Some of my students also send me letters, with photographs of their families. I like receiving letters. If they want it, you can share with them my address.

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(I would love to read your memories of Ms Louis in the comments section. Do share!)



43 comments:

  1. It shocks me how I wish for...what is lost and cannot come back....miss you all sooooooooooooooooo much

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  2. I have studied in eight schools. Westcott from the third through seventh grades. My first experience in a hostel. Out of the eight of them, two are especially close to my heart. Needless to say, Westcott tops the list.

    Even though Mrs. Louis never taught me, this post was amazing to read. Hats off, Udita! Please keep the blog going.

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  3. yaar!!! awesome...
    Everytime, I am so lost in my thought of those golden memories that I end up with only emotions floating and no words to express...
    Ms Louis, love u ma'am...
    Udita, kindly share her address through mail.
    And yes, I do remember "Kitty and Rover" :)
    I even remember those classes of Ms Louis teaching us counting with small pebbles. It was these little tricks of her that build my interest in maths.It was just not one of the favorite subject but my most favorite subject in school and the credit goes to her as she was the 1st teacher to build by base in maths.
    Her personality is so charming that there was a feeling of freshness all around when she entered the class and it was so fresh and strong that I can again feel it while recalling those memories...
    I am very happy person today and I want to meet her in person and say her thanks as she was one among all who contributed and made me what I am today.
    Udita, can you let me know whether she will be finally settling in Goa or she has some other plans after retirement, so that I can contact her there.

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  4. she never taught me coz i joined skool in clss 6. but every teacher is near to me... moving frm 1 skool to another.. n frm skool to college... i never found any place having dis tremendous impact on me.. days passes but memories remains.. luv u all ma'am...

    vry nyc post.. luvd reading it.. grt job.. do post more interviews of our teachers :)

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  5. hats off to u Udita as i go through this blog after 2 years.. it seems as if it was jst yesterday i met Ms.Louis.. not only a teacher but also a friend to all her batches.. her lovely face with d mixture of love n discipline... "ll never forget..
    n Mrs Sanga.. my introducer to "Kitty and Rover"....."ll never forget those lovely days spent in BWGS.

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  6. Hi Udita, I am a Westcottian, 1994 batch. Am trying to find out about the whereabouts of a few teachers who taught us...Mrs Kaur, Ms. Verghese, Ms. Lucy John, Mrs. Tirkey...would you be able to help? If yes...let us connect. My email id is npbang@gmail.com

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    1. Hi Indira, even I am a westcottian 98 batch, Mrs sanga was my first teacher. Would b grateful to you if you can mail me ms Louis, and Mrs sanga contact number and address. My e-mail is nidhisarawgi@gmail.com

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  8. Hellow ma'am...if u remember me ...You used to teach maths..Mrs.Sanga was my class teacher...i miss them so much..this is my last year and if only i could talk to them once..Ma'am i would love if you once come back to school...i still recall those days when Mrs.Sanga used to teach us "Kitty and Rover"..

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  9. Hellow ma'am...if u remember me ...You used to teach maths..Mrs.Sanga was my class teacher...i miss them so much..this is my last year and if only i could talk to them once..Ma'am i would love if you once come back to school...i still recall those days when Mrs.Sanga used to teach us "Kitty and Rover"..

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  10. Hellow ma'am...if u remember me ...You used to teach maths..Mrs.Sanga was my class teacher...i miss them so much..this is my last year and if only i could talk to them once..Ma'am i would love if you once come back to school...i still recall those days when Mrs.Sanga used to teach us "Kitty and Rover"..

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  11. Hello Miss.. how are you? You were my class teacher and used to teach me English and Maths. I very well remember 'Kitty and Rover'and for a long time I wanted to own a dog and name him Rover. You also taught us spellings in the most innovative way. I am today going my PhD in English and am an English teacher because of you. I specifically remember that you loved lollipops. You would make me practice spellings and sums on your table after the lunch break. Your guidance and kindness has motivated me to take up teaching and I tell all my students about you. Love you Miss and stay well.

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    1. This is wonderful. I will share your story with her Rageshree

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  12. Is there anyway possible to contact her?i would be highly obliged if someone gives me her number.

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    1. Please share your email id Jaya so I can share her contacts

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    2. Hi... Please share Ms. Luis address... She is and has always been adorable...She was my first teacher.. K. G.

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  13. The way she chased away senior students from the swings of 3rd block saying these are for my kg children was adorable.
    Can u please mail me the address of her and mrs.Sanga also
    gupta.ritika495@gmail.com

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  14. my first teacher - you are very special.I was the shortest in my class and would always stand first in the queue to the bus. You would hold my hands and I felt your warmth and love always.Lots of love and respect Maa'm.

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  15. My very first memory of westcott is associated with Ms. Louis.. We miss you ma'am.. Love you so much. Thanks for being Ms. Louis to us :*

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  16. Thanks so much Udita for writing this and getting us closer to the memory lane of our school days. We all simply love Ms Louis and are delighted to read the interview. Looking forward to many more

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  17. Miss. Louis is present in the hearts of almost all the students who started their journey in Westcott in class KG. She was the teacher who took my entrance for class KG and she remembered that and recognized me even when I was in class 9th. I remember it was a meeting Sunday and I was expecting my fathers visit but he didn't come. Miss. Brene side was under construction and Miss. Louis room was on that side only I was looking down from the Veranda at all the parents coming but not mine . She came from back and said how are you Sahu girl. Though I am not Sahu all my cousins who have studied here are Sahu and she remembers all of them. She then told me that I remember the first time you came to school for the entrance test in the mid of session sometime in June month and you were a silent and timid child who knew very little. She somehow passed me and there my journey at Westcott started. I miss her and Mrs. Harinarain both of the teachers taught me for a little while me for a very little while but I still sometimes see them in my dreams.
    A very big thank you Udita for covering this story.
    And if possible please share her address so that I may also write to her

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    1. Tulika, what a story. Please share your email id or send an email to me at uditasanga@gmail.com so I can share her address. I'm sure she will love to hear from Sahu girl.

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  18. I miss my class kg math classes with mam she was the one who cheered me in all my downfalls
    Even it's not been an year of me leaving Westcott but I miss my life like he'll
    Thanks di for this blog this has made my tears she'd in happiness thank you
    for cherishing all my memories

    If you could do me a favor it will be
    great please let her know her kg student LAVANYA Devansh the one who never used to write even a single word in her answer sheet miss her a lot and the English classes of kitty and Rover

    THANK YOU A LOT

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    1. Please let miss sanga know about the last paragraph I was a kg b student

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  19. Hey..I miss her..She's my first teacher in Westcott. I want to write a letter to her. Really want to recoonect with her. Pls share her address and contact number so that I can be in touch with her:) my email id is priya.anu1211@gmail.com

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  20. Hey..I miss her..She's my first teacher in Westcott. I want to write a letter to her. Really want to recoonect with her. Pls share her address and contact number so that I can be in touch with her:) my email id is priya.anu1211@gmail.com

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  21. Would b grateful to you if you can mail me ms Louis, and Mrs sanga's contact number and address?
    sun.teaser@gmail.com

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  22. My 1st teacher in westcott...she iz d mest one of d most kind hearted n generous teacher..

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  23. Madam I miss you a lot. If you remember I & my sister came to Westcott as twins in class KG.A in 2006/2007. You were the best teacher of my life and will always be. Every teacher's day I used to come with a card until you retired from Westcott.
    Maybe in future if I come to Goa I would like to meet you.
    Love & Prayers to you^_^
    -Umama Hanifa

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  26. I would like to get your present address if possible.
    -Umama

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    1. Umama , please share your email id so I can send you the address

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  27. Oh wow! I just found out about the attention the blog got in the past few days and am surprised and happy to see your comments. Thanks for sharing your memories here, girls. I will send the address of Ms Luis and Mrs Sanga to those who asked and shared their email with me. If anyone else wants to reach out, let me know . I know they will love to hear what their former students are up to.

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  28. My first teacher in westcott!❤️ A beautiful soul.❤️❤️❤️

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  29. Hey Udita, could you please send me the contact details of miss Louis.
    I used to get gifts for her on every teachers day and she used to wait for me on every teachers day till I left the school. I really wanna talk to her, know how she has been. So can you please share her contact details.
    My id: arpita.appi18@gmail.com

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  30. Thank you so much udita...such an amazing work...Miss louis was our very first maths and english teacher...and to discover about her life and feelings...is like finding a treasure...though we don't call or meet them..but they will always have that special place on our memory...thank you for giving us some glimpse of our westcott days through this article..feeling nostalgic!
    Give my regards to Miss Louis.

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  31. Ma'am, I don't know you but reading your interview I was so happy as I don't find this kind of feelings from the present day teachers, I am from the batch of '77 of BWBS knew Ms Harinarain well, stay blessed.

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  32. Maam I really miss u a lot. Maam u hold a special place in my heart. Plz give me the contact detail of Ms.Louis
    arshi.akshra8@gmail.com

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  33. WoW...This is so beautiful & amazing ��
    ria.neha61@gmail.com

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